One thing I realize the more I live: relationship and love are more important than anything else in our existence. Having children trust and love you. Knowing they feel incredibly safe when you're solidly leading them. Children, when given te chance, will spend hours and days with their parents if they're shown real love and guidance. It's just all to common for kids these days to be set out on their own just to be thrown to the lions to be devoured by this cruel world. Please, if you have children of any age, give them the assurance that they're important and loved, with reservation. As parents we'll be rewarded! More than loving children the one most intimate relationship is with our spouse. God gives and God takes away, either way we bless His name. Life isn't meant to live alone, either friends, best friends, or our spouses will bring that togetherness we all long for. You'll never be joyful nor happy without the love you can find between two extremely close people. If its on vacation, out to a movie, or to dinner it's 10x's more fulfilling with those who you love and love you back. So in all lifes pains and continual tribulations seek and find those few select people that bring fulfillment to your life. Not those who take and never give back but those that give and bring joy and good things to your life. Living this life alone will be a disappointment, and a life lives with sorrow and loneliness. God desires us to live fulfilling full lives. If we seek after bringing peace to those around you we'll attract people, lovers, like-minded, and amazing people into our live. Amazing people that we can share this exciting and everchanging world we live in.